I did - but it still doesn't print correctly.
I just got a call from my printing service that my latest test print looks like it worked. I haven't seen it with my own eyes yet, so this is tentative but the work around seems to be ...
Do the file size reduction as noted above by islandman
Open the pdf in Preview
Print > select PDF drop down (lower left) > Save as PDF-X
Minimizing the file size FIRST is important because the PDF-X process is increasing file size by about 3 times. If I do it afterwards the area of translucent mask turns completely black.
BTW - I found many threads on the net about using Acrobat to flatten PDFs as well, so that's probably a fix for those who have the software.