Thanks Mike, but I was aware of all of these things and your post doesn't really answer my question.
Some google statistics:
First Search:
autocad tutorials
Results:
4,660,000
Top Ten Results:
These sites have clear video examples that take you by the hand from your first ever session with CAD, all the way up to the advanced stuff. They are also free.
Second Search:
vectorworks tutorials
Results:
156,000
Top Ten Results:
(this post is at number 7!)
Either the original nemetschek tutorials OR a rehash of the nemetschek tutorials.
Nearly all of these ONLY give tutorials regarding the latest features.
There is no guidance for a beginner who wishes to learn the individual tools step by step.
OR the tutorials cost $50 or more.
My conclusion:
AutoCAD is a clunky outdated piece of software, but it has an active and helpful community.
Vectorworks is a more interactively intuitive piece of software, but there is a long way to go before Vectorworks can compete with AutoCAD in terms of its community input.
It was not my intention to drag Vectorworks through the mud, but I'm quite frustrated by the lack of online documentation and assistance.