after a very long two days and nights...
went into "Time Machine" found the last file that rendered,
went through everything I had added, deleting then seeing if would at least not set the computer spinning (that horrid little rainbow thingie).
and after a few hours found a 3d solid that apparently the system did not like at all.
deleted it. But viewport update still ran out of memory....
and so,
set up the viewport, changed the preferences to save 3 last...
sheet set to 200dpi, custom render, 1 reflection.
saved the file, closed the file, quit VW, restarted the computer.
Opened the file, hit "update viewport"
and it rendered smoothly.
did it again for each of the 8 viewports...
finished just in time to run to the printer.
is there an easier way to do this?
Bill